The “first dance” is
a tradition that has been an important part of wedding ceremonies around the
world and specialist dance companies are encouraging couples to create a
magical dance that’s extra special for the big day! What better way to
entertain your guests and get the party swinging?
To date, couples have played safe by dancing a waltz routine, symbolically the most romantic of all dance styles, but increasingly more couples choose more contemporary styles and songs. Love ballads such as Barry White’s My first, my last, my everything or Stevie Wonder’s I love everything about you are popular, as is Frank Sinatra’s Fly me to the moon. Perhaps the more adventurous try a slow romantic start with quicker interludes such as songs by Queen Don’t stop me now or may even mix their own. Other couples choose a slow dance and a quick routine within the same evening e.g. a waltz followed by a jive!
 Traditionally, the bride and groom take to the floor for the first dance; however some cultures arrange the dance differently. For example, with Asian weddings all the family members join in to create a fun and exciting dance. These can range from Bollywood style themes, including Dandiraas where the family of the bride and groom perform with sticks, rotating in intricate circles.
Whatever the format, the first dance can be a daunting experience. So how can couples overcome those nerves and prepare for a “first dance”?
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Find suitable music that you are both happy with that reflects your chosen dance style. Experts suggest a 3 minute routine. For beginners, a moderate speed with easy to hear rhythm is ideal. More accomplished couples choose a faster or slower rhythm to add creativity to their routine.
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Find out if your band or DJ can play your chosen song.
- Consider what you are wearing. For example will you have restricted movement? How you will tackle the train of your gown? Wear similar shoes in practice to those you will be wearing at your wedding
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Find a reputable company. Look out for RAD, ISTD or IDTA trained teachers. Decide whether you want lessons at home or in their studio.
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1-2-1 lessons are far better than group lessons and although the price may be higher, you will learn more. .
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Practice between dance lessons - they are good stress busters!
Think about having dance workshops at your wedding to entertain all the guests.
Dance is a hot issue at the moment and it’s a new way to keep fit. You may not be an Anton du Bec or an Erin Boag, but your chances of pulling off something simple and showy with some dance lessons will be guaranteed!
Copyright 2007 Sam Jennings & Subika Anwar Beaus & Belles www.dances4u.co.uk
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